What Can I Do to Help Her?

"I think my daughter is in a domestic violent relationship. What can I do to help her?" "I'm sorry, but there is nothing you can do until she is ready for the help. Do you know if it's physical?" "Not that I know of yet. I think it's just emotional right now. I don't understand … Continue reading What Can I Do to Help Her?

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5 Things You Can Do to Help Someone in a Domestic Violence Relationship

I get message after message from family members and friends of people who are experiencing abuse, wondering what they can do for their loved one. (I know men and women experience abuse, and I also believe in choosing a different word than victim to label the person who is experiencing abuse, therefore, for this post, … Continue reading 5 Things You Can Do to Help Someone in a Domestic Violence Relationship

Journal Entry

A few excerpts from the journal I kept while going through my 3 1/2 journey to divorce: Nov 15, 2006 (six weeks before I left him the final time) I'm sitting in the women's shelter right now. I'm waiting to talk to someone to weigh my options. I think I've already mentally divorced my husband. … Continue reading Journal Entry

The Shelter

I could feel the soft pull on my nipple and let down as my twelve month old suckled in the early morning hour, the soft yellow of the rising sun. I half dozed as he nuzzled in close, and I was cherishing this sweet bond between mother and son, enjoying the sweet flow of life … Continue reading The Shelter