Do Your Domestic Violence Survival Skills Measure Up?

I sat on the stadium bleachers next to my boyfriend of six months on my birthday in the cool early November afternoon sun.  I had just finished performing the half time show with the color guard and marching band at our college football game. The week prior to my birthday had been amazing, it all started … Continue reading Do Your Domestic Violence Survival Skills Measure Up?

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So My Dad Helped You?

"Mom, why did you leave my dad, why!" My eight year old demanded of me yet again. It was not uncommon for him to ask me such a question, and I knew whatever I said would go back to his dad. We were driving home from the gym, it was dark and rain sprinkled the … Continue reading So My Dad Helped You?

Why not?

People Who Experience Abuse 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in their lifetime. Women experience more than 4 million physical assaults and rapes because of their partners, and men are victims of nearly 3 million physical assaults. Every year, 1 in 3 women who is a victim of homicide is murdered by her … Continue reading Why not?

Journal Entry

A few excerpts from the journal I kept while going through my 3 1/2 journey to divorce: Nov 15, 2006 (six weeks before I left him the final time) I'm sitting in the women's shelter right now. I'm waiting to talk to someone to weigh my options. I think I've already mentally divorced my husband. … Continue reading Journal Entry

Taking Responsibility: Why Being in a Domestic Violent situation was my fault

"Are you sure?" "Of course I'm sure." "But you're 20 years old and he's the only boyfriend you've ever had." "And we're getting married in a month. Everything will be fine." Yes I was young and naive, yes I knew nothing about relationships and yes, I was that 20 year old girl, marrying a 24 … Continue reading Taking Responsibility: Why Being in a Domestic Violent situation was my fault

Being Single and Being a Parent

There is one simple fact making single parenting difficult. And that simple fact is, you are single, and you are a parent. Okay this may be obvious, but here's how it goes: being single So I know there are those few out there who are perfectly happy living a life without a partner, but for … Continue reading Being Single and Being a Parent