Abuse comes in many forms. There are different kinds of abusers who abuse in different ways. Physical Abuse Of course, physical abuse is the most well known and talked about. Abuse generally doesn't start here though, it builds up in small ways until it escalates to physical. Once it gets to this point, there is … Continue reading Types of Abuse
Did you know 7% of your message is conveyed through words? That's a tiny sliver. 38% is through tone and the other 55% is through body language. Since only 7% of your message is conveyed through words, do you think it's important to be aware of the words you speak? Choosing the right words when … Continue reading Changing the Language of Domestic Violence and Abuse
I have lived in Utah for 19 years. I still don't know all the roads and how to get places. I rely on GPS like so many other people do. Sometimes, GPS gets me where I'm going exactly how I expected it to, in exactly the way I expect it to, sometimes GPS takes me … Continue reading Find What You Want
I get message after message from family members and friends of people who are experiencing abuse, wondering what they can do for their loved one. (I know men and women experience abuse, and I also believe in choosing a different word than victim to label the person who is experiencing abuse, therefore, for this post, … Continue reading 5 Things You Can Do to Help Someone in a Domestic Violence Relationship
People Who Experience Abuse 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence in their lifetime. Women experience more than 4 million physical assaults and rapes because of their partners, and men are victims of nearly 3 million physical assaults. Every year, 1 in 3 women who is a victim of homicide is murdered by her … Continue reading Why not?
It's been seven and a half years. Seven and a half years since I walked into a women's shelter. Seven and a half years since I began the divorce process. Seven and a half years since my life changed forever and seven and a half years since I last experienced the abuse that once was so … Continue reading What now?